In 1985 we had been married for about a year and I found an advertisement in the AAA magazine about a three day, two night stay on a golf course in Boulder Creek, California. I knew my husband liked to golf and while I didn't, I did love to spend some time reading and relaxing so I booked a mini-vacation for us. It was a wonderful trip, but then the kids started coming so we didn't get a chance to go back.
Here we are on that first vacation. Wish I still looked that young and thin! |
Fast forward 10 years and we went back down to celebrate the birthday of our friend, Tony. My mom watched our two kids so we could get away.
It was just the four of us but we had such a good time we decided right then to book another trip for the following year. I was seven months pregnant with our third child in 1996 but we went down anyway and the guys thought that it might be fun to start a little golf tournament.
In 1997 the first Gentleman's Invitational began. There were five golfers and four of the wives came. We brought our baby, Rachel, and she was so good.
The age of computers had not fully taken over yet so the official scoring was done on a placemat in the restaurant. My husband won that first year.
Since that time we have added some players and lost a few for one reason or another. A couple of years my husband was not able to play because of his back issues but we usually went down anyway, just to enjoy the relaxing time with our friends. How proud we were when our son took golf in high school and then began to come down and join the tournament as well. We have had as many as 18 golfers! Most of the wives come too and we have several traditions that we have formed over this time.
First, I try to take a picture of all the golfers at the start of each tournament:
The first night we are there some of us go to a restaurant we love called Scopazzi's. They are very accommodating for our last minute reservations and the food is delicious. If you are ever down that way I highly recommend them.
The next night we all get together for a pot luck. Everyone brings an appetizer to share and we rotate hosting duties. Some of us get 2 or 3 bedroom villas and it makes it easy to accommodate everyone. Golf issues are discussed by the men but most of the time it is just catching up with each other to see what has been going on since the last September.
The final round of golf takes place on Friday morning and then we gather in the club house for the awards presentation and I take a picture of the winners. Before everyone runs off until next year, I ask one of the staff to take a picture of our whole group together.
One year, as I was putting the album together, I realized that a stranger had come and photobombed our group picture! We must look like a fun bunch to be with.
In the middle picture, the guy on the end with the plus fours and tam o' shanter hat is not with our group! |
You can see the first two of the Boulder Chronicles on the table in the top picture. |
So far I have filled three scrapbooks and started a fourth!
Tony is the "Commissioner" of the tournament and he writes a recap of the scoring and highlights each year. I add that to the end of the layout for that year and my books have become a definite source of reference for the happenings over the years. Someone always asks, "When did we first start coming down here?" or "Remember that time when..."
This is a layout of the villas. |
I really look forward to our September reunion and this year was no exception. During the morning while the guys are golfing I sometimes bring my scrapbooking supplies and work on the albums. This year I brought down a stack of magazines and went through them, pulling out the things I want to keep. I went through 11 magazines and read through a book I had on blogging tips.
How about you? Golf in any tournaments? Have a "September family" that you see yearly? Love to hear about it!
How fun that you're the resident documenter of what sounds like a delightful annual tradition. It's pretty amazing when friendships develop and grow over such lengths of times. And I think it's hilarious you had a party crasher one year. Glad nobody got teed off. :-)
ReplyDeleteEven funnier is that NO ONE noticed that he was there until I showed them the pictures the following year!!! There have been a few incidents (mostly golf-related) along the way but I'd say we have a pretty good group. Thanks for stopping by.
ReplyDeleteI have tried scrapbooking so many times with my 3 children...never quite got the hang of it. Yours are great. A very nice way to cherish those memories. However, journaling, and making journals...a little bit different, but I'm all over that. Nice to meet you here via Deborah's blog! Aloha!
ReplyDeleteYes, journaling and making journals, me too - and planners! I have scrapbooks started for each of my three children but none are finished yet. The oldest is 31 and the youngest will be 21 next month. All are partially done, mostly school pictures because those are the easiest! Thanks for stopping by. Isn't Deborah great?
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